SEEING THE LIGHT IN NYC

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I have understood I’m dying since becoming conscious of being alive. I’m not the least bit morbid. I would not consider myself a nihilist. On the contrary. This understanding — this very visceral consciousness — that life is short, truly brief, a gift, a mystery, and that each day I live is one day less I have on Earth, has made me profoundly grateful, happy, satisfied, clear, motivated, purposeful, and present.  Read more

THE 3 A.M. PROJECT

New York

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3 a.m. Project New York

I haven’t posted a photo from the The 3 a.m. Project in a while. So here are a few recent ones. From tonight, and the past few days. I look at these photos and think to myself…how is this person 50 fucking years old??? BTW, I’m 46 or 47…I can’t remember which, because I always lie up. So now I’m not sure what age I am anymore, and I’m too lazy to do the math.  Read more

WARNING: I JUST WORD VOMITED BELOW AND DID NOT LOOK BACK

New York

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Brooklyn Bridge

So my gay husband, and friend, Matt is helping me with a project, which he thought would be enhanced by me answering the following 25 questions. Since I hate this kind of thing, and am completely lazy about writing (brain faster than hands), I can never get this kind of thing done, which is why there’s a paucity of blog posts, not to mention my hopelessly outdated CV that I’ve sworn I’d update each weekend for the past year. Best intentions… Read more

MY AMAZING RACE

New York

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I haven’t written in weeks and am feeling terrible about myself. I love writing. I’ve been traveling a ton and working even more. And when not working, socializing. And when not socializing, catching up on life, or wasting time, one way or another.

Example, tonight, Read more